Aparigraha
- Miki Tozer
- Dec 27, 2025
- 2 min read
Aparigraha—non-possessiveness or non-attachment—is the fifth of the Yamas (ethical restraints) described in the Yoga Sutra. We are often conditioned to believe that success or worthiness comes from more — more money, more possessions, more experiences, more recognition. Yet true freedom is often revealed not through accumulation, but through release. Letting go of old emotions, stagnant energy, outdated beliefs, or unnecessary possessions creates space for peace and clarity.
Aparigraha in the Yoga Sutra:
Aparigraha is one of the five Yamas that guide us in living harmoniously with ourselves and the world around us. When practiced, it brings a sense of lightness and expansion, inviting us to loosen our attachment to material things and fixed outcomes. We arrive in this life with nothing, and we leave with nothing— this principle reminds us to honour and appreciate what we already have, rather than constantly seeking more.
In Yoga Sutra II.39, Patanjali teaches:
Aparigrahasthairye janmakathantasambodhah
On becoming steady in non-possessiveness, one gains insight into the nature and origin of birth.
By releasing our grasp on worldly attachments, what becomes available is our most sacred possession: inner peace.
Practising Aparigraha on the mat
Even on the mat, attachment can show up subtly. We may grip onto goals— wanting to achieve a certain posture, look a particular way or “progress” in a shape. This striving pulls us away from presence, from Yoga.
Let Go of the Outcome
Choose Sensation Over Shape
Release Comparison
Stay With the Breath
Accept Fluctuation
Rest Without Guilt
Be with the Mantra: "I release the need to grasp, and I allow this practice to be exactly as it is.”
Practising Aparigraha off the mat
Off the mat, Aparigraha invites us to simplify and soften our grip. It asks us to release what no longer nourishes us—physically, emotionally, and energetically.
Release old stories and identities
Practice forgiveness
Allow emotions to move
Let go of control
Release the need to be right
Detach from constant productivity
Release attachment to how others show up
Let go of people-pleasing

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